Every week, I get three to five calls from telemarketers
offering to “sell me leads”. I also get
calls from scores of web vendors promising to “capture” visitors who come to my
site, while other sites encourage me to bid (a la Ebay) on existing “red hot”
leads that they have generated.
I don’t know about you, but I am not looking to be sold
leads, and I certainly don’t want to capture anyone. I have never viewed prospective clients as
commodities to be bought and sold.
A successful, long-term business is built through relationships,
not by capturing strangers. The goal is
to create value, not take hostages.
Part of what causes so many real estate agents (and
brokerages) to have poor reputations is that too much attention is paid to the
transaction and too little attention is paid to the people involved.
When the clients you work with have been “sold” ,“captured”,
or auctioned to the highest bidder… really, how much hope is there for the relationship?
I have built my business by referral, one satisfied client
at a time. That means my goal is to work
with people who have been referred by people who know, like and trust me
because they know I’m competent and they know I care about the well-being of my
clients.
I spend a lot of time talking with my clients about “exit
strategy”… in other words, making sure you can get out of whatever you’ve
gotten yourself in to if circumstances should change down the road. Sometimes, if there’s not a viable exit
strategy, then the deal never happens.
But that’s for the best.
The goal for anyone committed to long-term sales success
should be to focus on the “happily ever after”, not merely the here and
now. I need clients who love me every
bit as much 12 months from now as they did when we were together at the closing table.
And that rarely happens when you’re bought, sold or
captured.